Addiction does not just happen to one person in a family. It happens to everyone in the family system. By the time most men arrive at St. Christopher's, their families have spent months or years living in the aftermath: walking on eggshells, absorbing the financial and emotional damage, trying to help in ways that did not work, and carrying a grief that is difficult to explain to anyone who has not lived it.
At St. Christopher's, we believe addiction is a family disease. Not simply the disease of one person's addiction, but a condition that takes root in the entire family system and requires the entire family system to heal.
The Family Program at St. Christopher's exists because recovery that only addresses the man in treatment leaves the system he is going home to unchanged. We treat the whole family, because that is what lasting recovery requires.
The research on family involvement in addiction treatment is consistent and clear: when families participate meaningfully in the treatment process, recovery outcomes improve. Clients whose families are engaged in their own healing alongside them are less likely to relapse, more likely to complete treatment, and more likely to sustain long-term sobriety.
The reasons are not difficult to understand. Addiction reshapes family systems in ways that outlast the substance use itself. Communication breaks down. Trust erodes. Roles develop inside the family that, however well-intentioned, often perpetuate the cycle of addiction rather than disrupt it. A client who completes treatment and returns to an unchanged family environment is walking back into one of the most powerful relapse triggers available.
Our Family Program exists to change that environment, alongside everything else we are doing with the man in treatment.
Micha Matherne, LCSW, leads our Family Program alongside a team of three full-time therapists dedicated exclusively to supporting the families of men in our care. This is not a one-person operation or an add-on service. It is a fully staffed clinical program built around the conviction that families deserve the same level of care and attention as the men in treatment.
Just as your loved one deserves support starting from day one, so do you. Micha and her team are here from the moment your family enters this process, available by phone, Zoom, and in person, and committed to walking alongside you through every phase of your loved one's recovery and your own.
The Family Program at St. Christopher's is a structured, progressive system of education, therapy, and support that begins the moment a client enters treatment and continues well beyond discharge. Just as we believe sobriety is a long-term journey, the same holds true for our families. As your loved one progresses through their recovery, you will walk alongside them on your own path, growing in your own personal healing. The work you do through our progressive workshops and weekly support will move the focus from how to fix the addiction to how to heal the family.
From the moment a client enters treatment and grants permission for family communication, our Family Program Director reaches out directly. This first call is the beginning of the family's own process. Micha Matherne, LCSW, our Family Program Director, introduces the program, explains what is available, answers initial questions, and makes sure every family member knows exactly how to get connected to the support that is waiting for them.
Families also receive follow-up information by email, including access to virtual support groups, educational materials, and guidance on starting their own recovery process.
The centerpiece of our Family Program is a series of progressive monthly workshops that move families through their own arc of healing alongside their loved one's recovery.
The first workshop is a three-day experience held Friday through Sunday, bringing together the client and their selected family members or support system. Families learn about addiction as a family disease, not simply the disease of one person, and begin to examine the roles and dynamics that have formed around their loved one's substance use. They start developing the communication tools and boundaries that support recovery rather than inadvertently undermine it. Families often describe this workshop as the moment they first began to genuinely understand what they have all been living through.
Just as we believe sobriety is a long-term journey, the same holds true for our families. As your loved one progresses through treatment, you will be invited into a second, more advanced workshop offered every two to three months. This is where the focus shifts from disconnection to connection. Workshop Two moves away from psychoeducation and into group therapy, creating space for families to do the deeper relational work of healing: processing trauma, examining shame, and beginning to rebuild the bonds that addiction has strained or severed. The work you do through our progressive workshops and weekly support will move the focus from how to fix the addiction to how to heal the family.
Our Family Program includes two weekly virtual groups open to all participating families.
On Tuesdays, our Family Support Group provides a consistent, welcoming space to process ongoing experiences, ask questions, and receive support from others navigating similar circumstances. On Thursdays, our Families Helping Familes Group deepens families' understanding of addiction, mental health, codependency, and the recovery process.
Both groups are virtual, making them accessible to families across Louisiana and beyond who cannot travel to Baton Rouge regularly.
Once families complete the initial workshops and become regular group participants, they are invited into our monthly Family Alumni Group. This is a long-term community space where healing continues after a client's formal treatment ends, where new challenges can be explored, progress can be celebrated, and the habits and insights built during treatment can be reinforced over time.
Recovery is a long game for families as much as it is for the men in treatment. The Alumni Group is built around that reality.
Micha and her team also offer individual clinical support to families who need more personalized attention alongside the group programming. Whether a family is navigating a particularly complex situation, processing something that feels too private for a group setting, or simply needs a one-on-one conversation to get started, individualized sessions are available by Zoom or phone. These sessions are tailored to each family's specific circumstances and provide the clinical depth that group programming alone cannot always deliver.
Staying connected during long-term treatment matters, and we work to make that possible as each client is ready. Visitation and passes are incorporated into treatment as a client progresses, increasing in duration and frequency as their clinical team determines they are prepared. For families who live out of state or cannot travel, virtual communication options are available.
We ask that all families attend at least two Al-Anon meetings before participating in our family services. Al-Anon provides foundational insight into addiction, codependency, and the importance of self-care that helps families arrive at our workshops better prepared to engage with the content and each other. If you have never attended an Al-Anon meeting, our team can help you find meetings in your area or connect you to online options.
We also recommend that families watch "It Takes a Family" by Debra Jay and Dr. Kevin McCauley before their first workshop. This educational resource provides a clear, clinically grounded explanation of the disease of addiction and the recovery process, giving families a shared framework before the deeper work begins.
Neither of these is a prerequisite for reaching out. If you are not ready for any of that yet, call us anyway. Micha and her team will meet you where you are.
The program includes an initial intake call with our Family Program Director and her team, monthly three-day workshops, weekly virtual support and psychoeducation groups, a monthly family alumni group, and individual consultation sessions with Micha Matherne, LCSW. Visitation opportunities are also available for families of clients in our Chapter Three Program.
No. Our weekly support groups and psychoeducation groups are held virtually, and individual consultations with Micha are available by Zoom or phone. Families across Louisiana and beyond can participate fully in our program without traveling to Baton Rouge.
It is not mandatory, but it is strongly encouraged and clinically supported. Research consistently shows that family involvement improves treatment outcomes for clients and produces meaningful healing for the family members themselves.
That is completely normal. Many families come to us uncertain, guarded, or exhausted. Micha and her team meets families where they are and help them take the next best step at their own pace. You do not need to have it figured out before you reach out.
Yes. Our monthly Family Alumni Group and ongoing virtual support groups remain available to families long after their loved one's formal treatment ends. Recovery is a long-term process for families as much as it is for the men in our care.
Al-Anon is a free, peer-based support program for family members and loved ones of people with addiction. We recommend that families attend at least two meetings before participating in our workshops because Al-Anon provides a foundational understanding of addiction and codependency that helps families engage more fully with our program. Our team can help you find meetings near you.
If someone you love is struggling with addiction and you are trying to figure out how to help without losing yourself in the process, our Family Program is built for exactly that. Give us a call.